10 Things You Shouldn't Say To A Shy Person

Hey there. Long time no see well at least for a week. I'm so sorry for not posting on Wednesday at the moment I'm just really busy with school and driving lessons. I hope you can forgive me.
Anyways on Friday I celebrated the birthday of a friends friend of mine. We danced, laughed and in general had a great night. When I came home at around 2 I lay in bed and I just couldn't get some thoughts out of my head.

So I gathered 10 things you should never say to me or shy people in general (now I know not everyone's the same but these are the most common ones I could think of).

1. in a restaurant "I need the restroom, please order for me/let the waiter know we want to pay."

2. in a large crowd "Wait here I'll be back in a second."

3. "Please come to the party. Lot's of people will be there."

4. This one I hate the most: you're out with some friends and a person you don't know and then your friends say this "We'll be 
back in a sec just get to know each other better."

5. "Presentations must be held alone." (urgh this is why I hate presentations)

6. in general being asked to speak in front of your class or a lager crow.

7. "Why are you so quiet?"

8. "This is... She/He's really shy."

9. "You need to go out more."

10. "Are you okay you don't talk much do you?"

So basically these are 10 things I hate to hear and I really hope some of you can relate in some points.

lots of love


  1. I hate number 7 too, it really annoys me. I feel like saying no you're just so loud and in people's face. The worst is when you've actually tried to be talkative and they still turn round and say that!

    Ami x

    1. oh gosh yes like they use it as a standard introduction like it's your thing but it really just makes it worse x

  2. Oh man, I used to get asked #7 all the time when I was younger! People used to be surprised that as a young girl I didn't have much to say. I guess I feel more comfortable just listening. No worries about the posting schedule! Everyone has a life outside of a computer screen :)

    Lindsey Elyse | lindseyginge

  3. So relatable! ugh number 5 is the worst, I just hate being put into the spotlight on my own. Also number 7 is such an annoying question, I'll never understand why people even feel the need to ask someone about it.

    Sara / AboutLittleThiings

    1. absolutely like leave me be me and go mind your own business please! xx

  4. I think the worst is when people comment on how quiet you are. It draws the attention to you and for me it would always make me feel so conscious about it, and therefore more shy.

    Anne x